Andrew Sullivan and his new bestie Bowie get to know each other last weekend. |
He makes no secret, though, that he has a serious soft spot for dogs, particularly beagles. His heartbreak was palpable after one of his beagles, named Dusty, died last summer.
Today, in his blog, however, he tells us how fate took over once again, as it usually does when dogs and people unite to become a team.
Sullivan said he was invited to upstate New York, where a three legged, 18-month old beagle named Bowie was looking for a home. Was Sullivan interested?
After a slightly rocky first meeting involving intestinal upset and an unfortunate pee time accident, Sullivan was smitten.
He writes:
"I have to say this weekend was a bit of a love affair. There is so much about her that reminds me of Dusty as a puppy--the pathological wolfing of the food, the constant interest in every smell, scent and sight, the sheer constant energy. But unlike Dusty, she's extremely affectionate. And even obedient.
By the end of the weekend, she perfected "sit" and "stay" and (almost) "down"--and there were no more accidents. We didn't use her crate after the first night. If I didn't see her, all I had to do was say "Bowie" and she would come scampering around the corner to shower me with love.
Just when you least expect it...just what you least expect. I think the grieving is done now."
It's interesting how Bowie came into Sullivan's life, apparently at the precise moment he was ready for this kind of thing to happen. Not sooner, not later, but at the right time.
I think dogs just know how to do that. The right dog comes into our lives just when we most need them. Even if we don't realize we need them.
Jackson The Cocker Spaniel (front) and the late Bailey the Wonder Dog keep watch over me and Jeff last fall. |
The past three years have been chaotic, but fun for me. Jackson the Cocker Spaniel has been there through that, cheering me up in my dark moments, enthusiastically sharing in my excitement at the good times, and calming me down during my too-often excitable, frustrated moments.
It's as if he knows just what to do.
And I had Bailey the Wonder Dog in my life for a year before he died last May. His passing felt too soon, too painful, as we only knew each other for a year.
But Bailey The Wonder Dog taught me to embrace the ones we love, because we never know when they will go.
Because of what Bailey taught me, or at least reinforced for me, I wake up each morning and see my husband, alive and well and loving right next to me. Which means I get another day with him. Another day to cherish. May there be zillions more.
Some people say that dogs are wonderful teachers for humans.
Some people are spot on.
No comments:
Post a Comment